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Had to update the theme, which means I have to add all my fancy pants edits to the them. Sorry about that all. At least the errors are gone now!

My blog is all wonky now. I don’t know how to fix it. Oh well. It happened when I did the auto update. Sucks.

Tags: go figure, it is all wonky, sucks, updating

So okay, I lied. I didn’t make a video today. I started on the intro and it became a real pain to deal with so I made another video for another blog and to test some things.

I am making one though. So stick with it. Maybe I’ll actually publish a real blog sometime on this thing too.

Later.

I’ll be making videos for this site. I am not sure what direction I’m going to take this but we’ll see how it goes.

It’ll take a bit of time to get this together. I’ll probably have something up today or tomorrow. Working on it.

You guys need to hear the truth. You need it so bad you don’t realize it.

GIRLS HAVE IT SOOOOOO EASY!

Okay, I’m talking to some guy friends that are doing the online dating search. We finally came to some very good information.

You see, when a guy signs up for a dating site, you fill out a profile, and then you spend hours looking and emailing girls. Sometimes you get replies but you’ll hardly ever get a girl who just writes to you out of the blue.

So, no girls just pop up out of the blue to write? See I didn’t know that.

As a girl, the moment I log into a dating site, put my profile together, the first ten minutes I’ve got emails coming in.

And more show up later.

Soon my box is full.

So, like, if I was looking, I’d pull up the emails, check them all out, if some people sound interesting I write back.

Do you see where this is really uneven? I mean honestly?

I didn’t really know this before. Thanks to the guys that told me. Sorry guys, I know it is unfair. I didn’t realize you all were getting it tough like that.

So it turns out you’re lucky if you might hear from a girl back on a dating site. Lots of girls get to chose from the list. Guys are stuck hoping some girls reply.

And it doesn’t matter what you look like!!!!

There are some guys I would reply to that looked common. Actually really hunky guys sort of scared me. If you look better than I do… well…

Okay, now I’m thinking online dating really sucks for guys, because it’s way harder to get through all of that competition. I used to advocate dating online for guys and girls. Guys, what do you think about online dating sites? Worth doing any more?

So… like… I’ve got ideas and posts I want to do for this blog, I’ve been lacking motivation. Sorry, no wonder woman here. Just regular sort of chick with moody behavior.

I’ll try to post more regularly like I was doing. Some people were calling it writer’s block. Well whatever.

Oh and the spammers are still here in the background. Grrr… stupids.

What do real men wear?

Whatever the heck they want to wear!

Where to they buy the gear?

Wherever they want to buy them!

Okay, since we did the panties deal, now we’re doing the guy side. Just to be fair. And I got some guys to tell me the answer about these so here’s the low down.

In general, guy underwear is easier to understand, because there are very few different styles of cuts. Men do not wear panties, they do not have any sort of fancy terms for what they wear to cover their bums. Women will say they wear underwear, panties, knickers or whatever the term is these days. Guys wear underwear.

Anyway, let me know your thoughts. Girls, what do you think looks good? Guys, what are your preferences? Any ideas?

All images of guys in underwear come from the International Male catalog. Nude image is from All Posters.

Okay, you’ve been with a guy for so long, and now he annoys you every time you look at him. She seemed to be the right girl, but now that you really know her, she is a little too needy for your taste. Maybe she cheated. Maybe he lied.

In the end, it didn’t work out.

So okay! Time to end it. You are unhappy, you make him unhappy. That’s okay! Life is like that. It was fun while it lasted but now it sucks.

Now what?

Well, the last thing you do is drag the darn thing out.

Be honest with him or her about how you are feeling. You don’t think it is working out. You want to end it before it gets on really bad terms and you hate each other.

It is never easy. Never. Breaking up is hard for both people. I think that is why some people avoid it. They would rather cheat and secretly inside they hope they are caught, because they know then it would be easier. They don’t have to do it.

Or some people look for their partner to cheat. And then they will go wild over something, and make it their fault for the break up. Something as small as an email or watching porn will set them off.

This is generally a bad idea. You come off looking like a jerk either way. On top of that, it might be a LONG time before your partner gets a hint, or you find some ‘cheat’ evidence. You’re wasting a lot of time being unhappy.

Where’s the rule that says you have to stick with it forever and always unless someone cheats? I’m sorry but I don’t see it and wouldn’t put anyone else through it. Some people aren’t compatible. That’s it. Sometimes you don’t know until you’ve been together. Oh well!

Be a man (or woman!) and grow some balls (or a vagina!) and break up the right way.

I tried installing some plug ins to this thing to stop some spam. The first plug in the code was all wrong, the second one doesn’t work.

So… I’m stuck as to what to do about the spam. You all don’t see it but it is real annoying to delete all the time. They don’t get through, thank goodness.

Sorry to put you all through my whining, but I am a ranter anyway! You should be used to it by now.

I rant a lot. If you’re not used to it yet, get off my blog.

Okay, I like blogs just fine, but I have a problem with those blogs that are overloaded with advertisements and images that it becomes SO SLOW to load them up.

How many advertisements does a site need? Mine has a few. I highly doubt I would ad more to the side bars. The only things I would add might be widgets like the social bookmarking things. Even that might be a little too much.

I try to limit those so my readers won’t go somewhere else. Anyone else annoyed with all the advertisements on other blogs?

I’m not talking about nice blogs that do have advertisements. I’m talking about ones that have SO MANY that it slows the whole thing down.

The Internet is about SPEED. Speed is the key. A person should be able to blast through your blog, without waiting on pages to load. Dial up users, okay, you expect that. Right?

But not someone like me with cable Internet. I should be able to get your page up in seconds. If I have to wait for images to load, they better be content, NOT advertisements.